Sunday, May 06, 2018

As I Have Loved You


Sermon for SMHP, Year B, Easter 6, May 6, 2018

                9As the Father has loved me, so I have loved you; abide in my love.  10If you keep my commandments, you will abide in my love, just as I have kept my Father’s commandments and abide in God’s love.  11I have said these things to you so that my joy may be in you, and that your joy may be complete.  12“This is my commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you.  13No one has greater love than this, to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.  14You are my friends if you do what I command you. 
          15I do not call you servants any longer, because the servant does not
know what the master is doing; but I have called you friends, because I have made known to you everything that I have heard from my Father.  16You did not choose me but I chose you. And I appointed you to go and bear fruit, fruit that will last, so that the Father will give you whatever you ask in my name.  17I am giving you these commands so that you may love one another.

           In the midst of the debates on “sexuality,” which were about a couple of questions within the vast expanse of human sexuality—can we ordain gay and lesbian pastors and will we marry gay and lesbian couples—in the midst of that debate, people started to say funny things.
          It happens, especially in the midst of fraught debate on difficult issues.  The first time I heard it was in a sidebar conversation at our pastor’s text study.  Then at the synod assembly.  Then at the churchwide assembly, where it was framed the best.  A man got up to the Red Microphone—that’s the “Against” Microphone.
          And he said this:  “What I am sick of hearing about with this issue is love.  Stop with all of this mushy love stuff.  That’s not what this is about.”

          Everybody look at your bulletin Insert.  See the gospel lesson for today?
          What word appears nine times in the eight verses in this lesson?   [Love or loved]
          The word “love” appears forty-nine times in John’s gospel alone.  Usually from Jesus, and often as a command, as it is in verse nine—“abide in my love” and verse twelve:  “This is my commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you.”
          Forty-nine times, Jesus makes the love the center of his instruction to the disciples in this gospel alone.  When he is asked, “what is the greatest commandment?” how does he answer?
          “Love God and love your neighbor as yourself.”
          Love is exactly what this is all about.  It doesn’t even really matter what the “this” is.  It’s love.  That’s not a “liberal” perspective.  That’s a gospel perspective.
          Even Paul, who wasn’t always the warmest and fuzziest of apostles, knew that love was at the center of our life as Christians.  In 1 Corinthians 13, the text you have likely heard if you’ve ever been to a wedding, Paul writes:
If I speak in the tongues of mortals and of angels, but do not have love, I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. And if I have prophetic powers, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. If I give away all my possessions, and if I hand over my body so that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing.
 Love is patient; love is kind; love is not envious or boastful or arrogant or rude… 
          If I make policy in the church but do not have love…
          Want to be a good Christian?
          Want to be a good person?
          Then for God’s sake, center your life in love. 
          And if you are wondering exactly what “centering your life in love” looks like, look no further than today’s gospel text, which describes the two most important ways to do that.
          “As the Father has loved me, so I have loved you; abide in my love.”
          The twofold instructions on love start there.
          Abide in my love.  Why “abide?”  Why not just say “love each other?”

          The sort of love to which Jesus calls us is deep.  It doesn’t just manifest in nice things we do for each other when we feel like it.
          It manifests in the nice things we do when we just ain’t feeling it.
          It abides.  What does “abiding” look like?

          We are called to love each other always.  To treat others with love always. 
          Everybody got that part?  Good.  Because that’s the easy part.  You can do that part without moving around much.
         
          What’s the second of the two-fold instructions?  See Verse twelve again.
          “Love one another as I have loved you.”
          Turn to someone nearby and talk about how Jesus showed us love. 
          àWhat does it mean to “love one another as Jesus has loved us?”  How has Jesus loved us?

          [Collect responses]

          Following Jesus, being his disciples—it all rests on this.  Learning to love one another the way that he loved us.  With a deep and abiding love—one which holds fast through the storms.
           And by being willing to stand up and step out for the neighbor in need.  To lay down our lives, in all of the ways which one can do that—by sacrificing our time, our money, our attention, our affection, whatever we have—for the sake of the neighbor in a spirit of love.
           It’s not mushy.  It’s real and it’s trying and it’s fulfilling.
           And it is absolutely what all of this is about.

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